Boundary statement: This template helps you organise what you have agreed. It is not legal advice, not a legal determination and not a court document. Ask a solicitor, attorney, mediator or court in your region before relying on any parenting arrangement.
Child name(s), dates of birth, parent / carer names, contact details, emergency contacts and key professionals.
Record the usual weekday and weekend care pattern, start and stop times, and whether this is agreed or still to discuss.
| Day / block | Parent / carer | Start | Stop | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Monday | ||||
| Tuesday | ||||
| Wednesday | ||||
| Thursday | ||||
| Friday | ||||
| Weekend |
School / nursery / daycare details, clubs, transport, uniforms, homework and who updates each organisation.
Normal location, backup location, travel responsibility, lateness process and child-focused handover notes.
Routine update channel, urgent contact channel, expected response windows, tone boundaries and topics to keep in writing.
GP / doctor, dentist, medication, allergies, passports, court orders, parenting plans, school letters and where documents are stored.
Cost categories, who pays upfront, receipt expectations, reimbursement timing and contested-cost process.
School holidays, public holidays, birthdays, religious / cultural days, travel notice and passport handling.
How often to review the plan, how to propose a change, how much notice is expected and what happens when there is no agreement.
Questions to check, unresolved items, regional terms and anything that may need professional or court guidance.